From the Book - First edition.
Introduction: confessions of a big, gigantic failure (who learned to love herself as she is)
Part One: Lies that keep us from loving ourselves as we are (or, becoming an imperfection)
Lie #1: Today I'll be perfect
Lie #2: I have to keep up with the Kardashians and also my neighbor Tammy
Lie #3: They forgot my name again, and I think I might actually be invisible
Lies #4: I'm going to need to shrink, suck it all in, quiet down, and possibly disappear
Lies #5: Pretending to be fine is the same thing as being fine
Part two: lies that keep us from connection (or, how to quit performing and start belonging)
Lie #6: If I am rejected, I will die
Lie #7: my job is to keep people happy and make sure they like me
Lie #8: neighbors are weird
Lie #9: Asking for help is a terrible idea, because then everyone is going to know I need help
Part three: Lies that keep us from dreaming big and living a full life (or, how to try things without fear of failure)
Lie #10: I'm a junior varsity adult, and the best spot for me is usually the bench
Lie #11: it's better not to try than mess up in front of everyone
Lie #12: I can't do that because no one does that
Lie #13: if I can't go big, I should just go home
Lie #14: it's better to dream small because then I won't be disappointed
Epilogue: your turn, in your way.
